My story
From Darkness to Light: My Journey of Overcoming Obstacles and Becoming the Best Version of Myself
I am a single mother, who was lost and confused. But deep within my soul, I found a burning flame that refused to be extinguished. This flame led me on an extraordinary journey of transformation, becoming the strong and independent woman I am today.
Here is how my story begins
My name is Alexandra. I am 33 years old, your friend, a nurse and a mother of an amazing 5 year old , a certified member of a Leadership Academy. I am Alexandra, God's child, who has taken every pain and turned it into a blessing.
In 2021, I felt the need for a journey of self-discovery after my divorce. This event prompted me to start getting to know myself, rebuilding my self-esteem, courage, independence, and femininity. Although at the time I thought it was the end of the world: alone with a small child to care for, disappointed, betrayed, doubtful of my own strength, emotionally broken and disoriented, not seeing any "light at the end of the tunnel" any way, I made the decision to start the journey of self-knowledge, to understand myself, to start acting according to my values and "brick by brick" to lay the foundations of a new chapter in my life. I had a burning desire to change this situation, to overcome my past and to change my future.
I had to dig deep into the roots of my inner self and my values to get all the rubbish out of there, in order to get clarity. For me, all of that was both trouble and joy, it was the catalyst for my growth, like a Phoenix rising from the ashes. I have always wanted to become a better person, to change to get more out of life , to give my daughter more than what I had as a child.
Joining the Leadership Academy was a turning point. This nurturing environment fostered both personal and professional growth, allowing me to reclaim my power. The experience highlighted two crucial aspects of success: the importance of creating a supportive environment and the significant influence of the five closest people in our lives, who can either empower us or hold us back.
Dear friend, I know that you have probably gone through many challenges, pain, disappointments, suffering and even torment, you have always been looking for a different path, a better environment, that encourages hope and confidence in your own strength. I know your pain, your hope ,your dreams and your desire to overcome obstacles.
Throughout my life, I have experienced many turning points, painful experiences, and challenges. But no event in my life, past or future, is in vain. If I look at each crisis, difficulty, challenge, and each joyful moment that fills my being, I see that everything is meant to help me become more of who I was meant to be.
All the time you have to think, dear friend , that there is something positive in a negative experience. You always have to keep in mind that the people's opinion doesn't matter, the only opinion that matters is yours and your 5 closest people in your life. We don't have to guide our lives and take into account the opinions of others. People don't always like us and are not always happy for our success. We must always surround ourselves with people who lift us up and are happy for the success we make.
I am grateful to the Universe and to God for this journey I call "life", for all the experiences I have been through, both negative and positive, because they have helped me to become the person I am today, who stands before you, a confident and stronger woman.
I am not coming to present you with a perfect life because I do not have it. I will never have it. And you know what? I don't need the perfect life , because what is a perfect life? For me a perfect life is a life lived with meaning , significance and to be able to help make a difference in the life of others and to share the knowledge I have gained to be able to overcome the challenges the life has thrown at me.
I just want to teach you to value yourself, to become a strong, sensual, irresistible woman and to be true to yourself. You have to think about where you are now in life and the results you get from life, if you don't like them it means you have to change something within yourself so that the results can image that change as well.
The reason I created this group is for you, my dear friends, to have a place where you can find hope and the desire for change to become the best version of yourself. Together with Gina – a fully qualified psychologist we have created this educational and personal growth resource for you. Here you will find extremely useful materials on:
Spirituality & Mindfulness
Mindset & Leadership
Femininity & Sensuality
Sport & Nutrition
Depression & Anxiety
With open hearts, we offer our support to empower you on your path to flourishing. We believe in your strength to bloom in the most magnificent way.
Circumstances and negativity couldn't dim my spirit. I held the unwavering belief that everyone has a light within, waiting to be shared. I've reached a point where I believe a divine force can ignite our potential and guide us towards fulfilling our burning desires.
Don't forget that the hardest moments in life lead to the greatest revelations and changes.
"There will always be a tomorrow to solve the problems that today seemed to have no solution."- Jose Saramago
"And the butterfly calls us gently back to the reason we came. To lighten up, to dance with the wind, to feel the sun on our wings." - Mary Oliver
"We are not defined by the pain we have endured, but by the strength we gain from overcoming it."- Maya Angelou
"Every woman has a story to tell and a lesson to share. Listen to us with an open heart and learn from each other."- - Brené Brown
"We must first love ourselves before we can truly love others."- Buddha
"Be the best version of yourself. The world needs your light."- Oprah Winfrey
"The wound is the place where the Light enters you." – Rumi
